Teens

Teenagers need boundaries and clear expectations, but they may push back and challenge you more than you wish. It's best to explain your reasoning and talk about your own choices as a teenager to help them understand your rules. Explain that the reason you make rules is to help them be safe, healthy and successful as they mature.

Offer kind words

Embrace every opportunity to praise your teen for making good choices, being responsible and showing kindness to others. Avoid hurtful words and skirmishes with your teen. This undermines her self-esteem, alienates her, and gives her a reason to rebel even more.

Enlist the help of others

It takes a village to raise teenagers, so keep in close touch with the parents of your child's friends. Compare notes on what your young people are doing. And work as a team to help them make positive choices.